Just Show up Anyway | NLP is Fun

When all the chips are down and the bottom has fallen out of your world, Now is the time to Show up Anyway.
After all if there is nothing to loose because it has all been lost, just Show up Anyway 

Even if
The dog Ate your Home work
Your Ceiling fell in
Your wife ran off with the milkman
Your children don't want to speak to you
Your Furry baby may have been put down
You lost your job
You Lost your house
Learn how to draw a line in the ground Get back in the Saddle and Show up anyway.
You may Be
Hurt
Angry
Upset
Embarrassed
Sad
Mad
Frustrated
But just show up anyway

Then you will
Heal
Rebuild
Move Forward
Make progress
Recreate
Get some Help
Feel better
Build up your power
Start something brand new
Never. Ever. Ever. give up. instead Just Show up Anyway.

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How much has having that problem cost you so far | NLP is Fun

Lets talk a little bit about Problems.

We all have them, and we have learned that it is not so much about the problem, that is the problem it is more about how you are responding to your problem, that could be the real problem.

For example do you believe that you are at Cause or Effect of the problem

At Cause = I can change it myself (I may need additional resources and yet it is possible) I will be accountable for designing my life.

At Effect = I cannot change it, it is beyond my own personal influence (I will wait until it blows over) in the meantime I will place the blame on people and things.

Your Beliefs are influencing what you think and that is influencing your behavior.

Beliefs = Thoughts = Feelings = Actions = Behavior

In the long run, is that really working for you in the way you had hoped for ?

Your Beliefs can be changed at any time, just by your decision to do something about it.

Once of the best things to do is to reverse engineer your results and find out if you think your action (in a certain behavior) supported your outcome.

If you don't think it did then you can begin to learn why you did not necessarily put your best foot forward.

Lots of people do great things most of the time, some time and then may also talk about ways in which they self sabotage themselves regularly.

The more choice and flexibility we live by the greater chance we have of Winning in any situation.

Something that Richard Bandler likes to ask is "How much Time and money have you spent on that problem"

So lets do this as a homework assignment:

Get a piece of paper and ask yourself:

What has having this problem cost me so far in actual money

What has having this problem cost me so far in Time and Energy 

How much more will this problem cost me in the next:

6 months

12 Months

2 years

5 years 

If you like you can begin to experience it on your timeline since you like having this problem and enjoy the full impact of being fully associated to the problem for a change.

Ok then, so what are you going to do about it ?

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Just How much more Sales success can you Stand | NLP is Fun

Just how much more success can you stand ?
If I taught you for example, the skills that Politicians and high ranking officers know about Influence and Persuasion, would that make you feel 1000 % more empowered.
And more comfortable in your own skin, when you were taking on new business.

How much more would this help you find your own true voice and communicate elegantly, and stand up for yourself against tricky communicators that know how to trip you up with your own words and out negotiate you.
If you are like me you operate from a place or integrity offering a wonderfully valuable service for a great exchange.
When you  understand your own high value you create a win /win proposition.

And What if (for example) you became really good at making more sales and influencing more people, would that cause a problem ?

And what if as a result of it, your money and your lifestyle improved Dramatically, would that be ok ?
What if because of it,you found the confidence to ask for what you really wanted, and you stopped selling yourself short and giving the farm away.
What if you found out that your services, were valuable and important.
And you remembered how much time and effort you had spent on developing your expertise and just needed to know how to share it with other people, and get a fair exchange for your extraordinary Talent.

And what if, you knew about Sales, and because you had some good days, and some bad days found out how you could create a system, that resulted in all good selling days no matter what.
What if this was a whole lot more simple than you thought after taking this knowledge packed Sales Training when you invest in the proper tools to do the job efficiently.

Well what will happen if you do
And what will happen if you don't
And what wont happen if you do 
And what wont happen if you don't

Truthfully, there is not a shortage of Sales or Buyers, but their may be a shortage of the appropriate knowledge and even the best knowledge activation.

Remember timing is everything, you cannot become an extraordinarily influential communicator by just reading a book (if that were the case I would just email you my 40 page manual) and wish you luck.

How do you know this training is the best for you ...
Curious ... Learn more about using NLP in Sales and start having more success in your selling, influencing and Coaching than you can imagine.

This is a Live Training and  you will be thrilled you learned how to integrate these real NLP Sales techniques into your Sales Process.

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How to Resolve Internal Conflict with NLP | NLP is Fun

There are many ways to resolve Internal Conflict. which most people experience at some stage or another. Things like Stress and Anxiety can cause loops of internal Conflict that lead to procrastination, indecision and even Panic Attacks, Phobias and Trauma.

These Loops keep a person stuck and unable to move forward asking for action can cause them to shut down all together.
When a person is in a stuck state of Internal Conflict this is a great way to begin to do quick work on a big chunk of Internal mayhem.

I like this because it goes straight to shuffling the Neurology and creating a pattern interrupt immediately. The beauty of this, is that it unravels the construction of the behavior which is Magic Dust to anyone in this type of agony. At the Least, this will loosen the connection to the problem, at the best it will solve the problem so that a person can gain a new vantage point and resume normal functioning.

 Everyone is different and the secondary gain and position of your participant are all contributing factors to your success.
So if you are doing this with somebody else make sure they want to resolve the issue enough for it to be compelling for them.

Magic Dust 

This will begin the shift as they can turn their attention to imagine normal functioning, you can ask them what will you do once we have resolved this that you couldn't do before (and have them do a sensory walk through beforehand).

So here is how to get it done.
1. Explain what The Conflict is
This begins to clarify and process any clump of unconnected generalizations which by Transderivational search you have made into a mental Tumbleweed and an unnecessarily complicated problem.

2. Remember a Time when you experienced it and take a Third position as Observer.
Begin to experience a dissociated overview of how the conflict plays out. Perceptual Position 3.
This means leaving all opinions out and no judgement about what you did or felt.

3. Now Experience it through your sensory experience and Perceptions (Position 1) Step into it and fully engage all V.A.K.O.G sensory experience. 
VAKOG stands for Visual = Seeing , Auditory = Hearing , Kinesthetic = Feeling, Olfactory = Smelling, Gustatory = Tasting all of your sensory experience which helps to make it more real. begin to record your discoveries be really thorough.

4. Now Experience it through the alternate or opposing position (Position 2) and step into it and engage V.A.K.O.G sensory experience.
VAKOG stands for Visual = Seeing , Auditory = Hearing , Kinesthetic = Feeling, Olfactory = Smelling, Gustatory = Tasting all of your sensory experience which helps to make it more real. begin to record your discoveries be really thorough.

5. Find out the positive Intentions 
Check both positions one at a time while making notes about the distinctions.

6. Take a Higher (Meta) Position 
Act as if  you are a neutral observer flying above position 1 and 2 continue to examine for further learning and perceptions.
Observe the common threads in overall intention.

7. Begin to understand the overall agenda of what you have learned
Now you can and consider the possibilities of how it is able to cooperate as a separate whole position.

8. Begin to align this new position with physiology 
You can use both hands to bring it in to your heart. Take time out to have your physiology welcome it and integrate this piece as a bridge to cooperation internally.

9. Experience a sense of wholeness
Deep Breathe x 3 and find purpose in your new alignment also future pace for any previous conflict and aim for wholeness in decisive action.

10. Ecology Check 
Make sure all of your Ecology /Values are honored during this process.

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Internal Rapport creates External Rapport | NLP is Fun

When you feel great about yourself others like to be around you.

When you are uncomfortable at any level, people feel uncomfortable around you even when they do not know why.
Sometimes people who are nervous, send out incongruent signals that make others feel bad.
In other words having Rapport with other people, works really well once you have Rapport within yourself.

What you are thinking, affects what you are transmitting in your communication.
The Pictures you see in your expectations should be of hopeful positive situations instead of things that scare you.

The words you speak inside your head, should support whatever it is you want. If not, you are going against yourself at an unconscious level and it will affect your results. The same thing about the stories you tell about your experience and your life.
You can begin to Visualize and speak with personal power, no matter what has happened.

It doesn't become a habit until you have done it consistently so to begin with, it may feel like allot, and after a couple of months it will change what you can believe about yourself and your life.
That is pretty amazing, isn't it.

Keep going, sometimes the Big Chunk is just showing up, once you are there anything is possible.
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Self love Changes Everything | The Self Love Process | NLP is Fun

What if you spent some time, every single day thinking about loving yourself.
Does that seem like something you would like to do.

Just taking time out to begin to love yourself and thinking about what exactly you love about you.
And then turning it into a habit, a Habit Of loving you with your own focused attention at least once, every single day.
This would really help you to connect to yourself Mind, Body, Soul and this Alignment connects your Neurology to your Physiology and feels amazing.

Read Ground yourself in Love Here
Read The Self love process by Nadia Harper here

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NLP is Fun Online NLP Practice Group

What is an NLP Practice group anyway 
NLP is Fun in Las Vegas is a NLP Practice group where newcomers to NLP, students of NLP beginners and advanced, get together and learn brand new patterns of NLP and Hypnosis. Traditionally it has been in Las Vegas.

What can I expect if I come to one 
Our subjects vary each month and we meet weekly for Hypnosis or NLP interchangeably. This year I am going to expand what we do offline in Las Vegas to Online webinars so everyone internationally can have a chance to join in all of the fun. Some of our practicers have been with us for many, many years and we have developed wonderful relationships that will probably last forever more.

I don't live in Las Vegas how can I come 
There is just so much I would like to share with you too and now that I have been doing this for a while and have been asked for it so many times, it seems silly not to, and so I have decided the time is now.

Here are the things I am going to start offering online as well as offline.
NLP Practice Group
NLP Coaching groups
Mastermind groups.

And other types of online learning and experiencing opportunities for those of you who are interested.

Our Next Las Vegas practice group
In the meantime, if you are out and about in the old LV (Las Vegas) then come out on Monday night March 11th 7pm - 9pm to NLP Practice group where we will be Overcoming internal Conflict with NLP .
Remember if you want to be successful in life and business, you must learn how to Master your own Mind first and there is nothing better than lashings of NLP to help you along your way.
By the way if you would like to know more about me then click here no need to be shy.

When will you have the next online Event 
Watch this space we will have our first one this month.

In other news:
What has NLP helped you to Master recently ?

Gone but Never Forgotten

Well it is official, I am back after a much needed change.
I have been writing this blog for a while now I began in 2009 and last year decided to take a little break to spend some time figuring out some other bits I was interested in.
I am happy to say I now am back and ready to talk more about NLP and continue to make it fun and easy for everyone to benefit from.
Since I last spoke to you here are some things that happened

I began an offline NLP Coaching group, and I will be creating an online one soon.

I have been doing quite a bit of Training on overcoming Resistant negative programming with NLP

Pictures from 7 Steps to Infinite Possibilities

I have been helping people create Goals for them they initially didn't believe were possible

I started Two Offline Mastermind Groups that use NLP and Think and Grow Rich 

I have been enjoying Las Vegas, Having Fun and Traveling and on top of all of that I have written lots of my own new programs and have been teaching those too.

And sadly I have said Goodbye to one of my most Inspiring mentors who will be in my heart and mind forever more.

RIP Nelson Mandela Gone but never forgotten.

So what is your news ?